Since the very beginning of learning about Hinduism I knew the one thing i would struggle with is the upset and anger I face as any human does. I have bipolar disorder so when a negative thing happens it manifests inside making me more and more angry either at myself or whoever has caused the issue. I thought that nothing could change this and recognising any changes could be an issue but the initial upset is hard but the more and more I go over it I find that I eventually feel more at peace and compassionate towards myself, another person or whatever.
This is very much a venting blog but also a realisation one which I hope others will find helpful.
Since June I hold my hands up and admit that I have made the choice to just distance myself from others who were not really supportive of my lifestyle choice. This I did because I didn’t want to argue and to be honest I felt vulnerable at being at the start of the journey so not able to answer awkward questions. I’ve made this huge choice which had an external change where I wear what I feel most comfortable and have a bindi but the most important thing was this was a very internal process, I had a lot of work to do on myself. I couldn’t focus on negativity because I had finally found a belief framework which made total sense to me and I am still learning. I’m so much happier in myself, I know myself more than ever and know that my aim in life is to display compassion and love in each thing I do, it’s not wrong to have compassion in fact it’s so important for everyone’s wellbeing.
My main heartbreak has been losing friends and a job I loved very much but that’s the price I have had to pay. I just wish that by avoiding putting myself through destruction people could see that this new identity is the first thing that’s ever made total sense and also it’s made me a much more relaxed and happier person. I’ve really had to avoid anything which can cause arguments because I love and respect people no matter what beliefs they have, religion should not be cause of arguing. I’d rather not put anyone in the position of them feeling they have to oppose my beliefs because it’s not nice for either side.
Surely avoidance is better than hostility however by avoiding I’ve shown hostility which I certainly didn’t mean to but I hope one day I find other ways to show others love and compassion yet also preserve my inner peace and keep the whole situation peaceful.
All I do have left to say is that we all strive for inner peace and hope that each person who reads this finds that peace in whatever way as long as it’s through love not hate and through good not harm.
Namaste